Wednesday, January 13, 2010

"习惯"的那个人

人生总有很多的选择。
每天要面对的选择,很多。。。。
吃什么,做什么,玩什么,看什么。。。
随然你每天都在做选择。 不过,总是...总是...
会选回你每次选的那個。

因为习惯。
习惯,是时间累积而来的一种动作。
情人间常说:「我对你不再有爱,都变成了习惯了。」
其实,习惯并沒有什么不好。
它让你自然的去做。
自然的去想他,自然的去爱他。

当你已经不觉得自己在付出时,
也许你觉得,你己开始习惯,有他陪伴在你的生命中,
那才是真的爱。

有什么不好? 我一直认为
很多事情开始要一个人独自去做时
就失去它的意义:
当习惯了两个人一起吃饭
习惯了两个人一起打球
习惯了两个人一起看戏
习惯了两个人一起散步
习惯了两个人一起回家
习惯了两个人一起聊天
习惯了两个人一起商量事情
习惯了两个人一起發呆
习惯了两个人一起睡觉前互望着对方
习惯了两个人一起..........

开始一个人时
很多快乐都不再了...
请珍惜你身边所有
把握任何一個美丽的机会
失去了就不再了...

现在请你回想一下
你习惯的那个人,是不是让你感觉很熟悉,就像家人一样?

这种感觉,不是那么容易就可以拥有的,应该好好的珍惜。
也许有天你失去了,才会明白这个人,在你的心理是佔了很大的位置。

好緣份是很神奇的东西,它只送给用心去经营的人。
赶快去抓住你那个熟悉的人吧,必竟你们曾经走过那一段,不是吗?

5 comments:

sm4rtguy said...

i do agree wif wat ya mean is even most of d ppL oso do but i'm sure we aLL jz wanna know "how to maintain it?"

Anonymous said...

do wat we can do... if the relationship has no way to move on.. you should end it there better then u keep on suffering... our life and future was just in our hand.. you still young time are still der... look clearly and make a right decission...

cutieKelly said...

wow...thx u all leave a smart comment on my blog...thx a lot...

sm4rtguy said...

anonymous, do u beLieve in "miracle" ahh?? cos i wiLLin' giv up my aLL to her jz to wish she can feeL it & understand. i'm not askin' for any rewards onLy wish she can giv me a chance to b wif her together forever n ever no matter how gd or bad, tat's d "miracLe" i'm Lookin' now! :-)

Anonymous said...

sm4rt...
miracle...??? hmmm... not so... but if give up everything... but the opposite still can accept it... its oso no point.. we should live how we are.. u should fight something and show to the girl that u can make something for she... like make ur own career much more stable.. and get a proper and stable income... if like that i trust the girl will trust on u that her future will be safe to be with u .. besides then those youngster nw who just spend their money at the club.. bets... drinks and drugs... who wants that?? just a cheap girls wan it... i noe even i oso keep on spending money at the club but nw since i get to noe my true love with her advise nw i oso no go clubbing fr near 1months adi... so maybe i write here u oso read liao gong gong.. but wat i wan to say to u.... not every secrifice will give u return... think wisely...

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